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So the D-word is on the table now. 


​​​​​​​Maybe you’re just now contemplating divorce, ready to get divorced, already started the process or even experiencing post-divorce issues ...

Let’s be honest, it’s a lot to navigate through.

There’s paperwork, there’s legal stuff, there’s emotions, there’s family, and of course, the assets and money.

Your mind is overflowing with questions & concerns!
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What are people going to think??
How will I make it on my own??
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How will this affect my family??
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How much is this going to cost me?? 
And the amount of divorce information and advice out there (the good and bad) is enough to make your head spin.​​​​​​​
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You don’t want to find yourself crying to a lawyer at $400/hour with basic questions and relying on them to be your support system, therapist or friend.

You have to take control.

They can't look out for everything.

You've GOT to educate yourself.
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It's a lot. I know. I've been there too. 
I'm Julie Gannon,
your Divorce Liaison & New Confidant 

I'm here to guide you through this! I've done ALL the research and consulted ALL the experts so you don't have to. 

You're going to need a super smart best friend when it comes to making this transition smooth. I've got your back! 

I'll help you save your precious time & money, get your ducks in a row, keep it amicable, and be there for you as you blossom into your new and improved independent self. 

Combining my expertise honed as a business & financial professional, learnings from my own personal and spiritual journey, & top divorce-related information — I'm bringing you Untangle The Knot to provide you with what you really need on this journey.

 

MONTHLY MEMBERSHIP 
With a Membership to Untangle The Knot, you won't have to worry.

You'll be guided through divorce in the best way possible and you'll have us as your lifeline.

ENLIGHTENED
You'll get our guidance and have access to credible, easy-to-understand information and tools to help you break through the confusion. It's all laid out for you inside. 
EMPOWERED
You'll be in control and know what you're doing so you can prevent mistakes that could cost you thousands and drag things on forever.
SUPPORTED
You'll be fully supported by Julie and the Untangle The Knot Community so you can ease the pain of divorce and  begin to create the future you want.
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"Untangle The Knot is one of the most comprehensive, balanced and helpful divorce resources I have seen for anyone navigating divorce. I recommend this to anyone facing divorce – it will inform you, empower you and support you in confidently transitioning into your single life!"

Jennifer Alldredge, Attorney-At-Law
​​​​​​​“Colorado Rising Star®” by Super Lawyers Magazine®

Divorce Impacts ALL Parts of Your Life.
Here's how we help:
Get it right and don't overpay!

Getting legal advice is a necessary evil, but we'll help you navigate this area so you save a ton of precious cash while still getting the legal advice you need! Whether you are doing it yourself or retained a lawyer, we are a perfect companion for you! 

We'll demystify the divorce process and provide you with time and money saving resources and worksheets so you can manage things like: 

  • Finding the right type of lawyer and legal support for your situation.
  • Getting the guidance you need while not draining your bank account.
  • Working with a meditator.

Willie Walters, CPO
Avoid costly mistakes.

The financial ramifications of divorce can be overwhelming — from the cost of the divorce itself to sorting out your current situation and embracing a new one on your own. 

  • Are you going to receive or pay alimony or child support? 
  • How will assets and credit cards be split? 
  • Can you or should you keep the house?


Don't worry! We give you super simple tools so that you can go and easily answer these questions.

Make sure your kids are okay.

Thinking about your children and the impact on their lives is heart-breaking. You might be thinking that staying together for the kids could be better. Research has shown that children with divorced parents have no more or less issues than children whose parents stay married. The biggest factor in their emotional health is you how parent and co-parent.  Your kids will be okay! 

We'll help you:

  • Talk to your kids about divorce making sure you say the 5 things they need to hear.  
  • Lessen the negative emotional effects on them.  
  • How to create a parenting plan that supports you and your kids and avoid pitfalls of the cookie cutter versions out there. 
Survive & thrive the emotional rollercoaster.

You will go through every emotion possible spanning denial, rage, broken-hearted, scared, overwhelmed, relief and could feel it all in one day!  
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We'll help you: 

  • Cope with the emotional rollercoaster to get through each day and get on a path to healing.
  • Find the lifelines that will get you through the worst days.  
  • Navigate that alone feeling -- you aren't alone!
  • Find the strength and courage to get through this.
  • Let go of the feelings of guilt, shame and worrying about what others think.
Take care of you!

As divorce turns your world upside down and stress fills every moment of the day, it's easy to neglect someone very important: yourself.  

​​​​​​​Making taking care of yourself a priority will help you get through this phase much more easily!

We'll help you: 

  • Find the daily strategies that keep your body and mindset strong.
  • To discover simple joys, even in emotional turmoil. 
  • Survive and even thrive through divorce!

Divorce Impacts ALL Parts of Your Life.
Here's how we help:
Get it right and don't overpay!

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Getting legal advice is a necessary evil, but we'll help you navigate this area so you save a ton of precious cash while still getting the legal advice you need! Whether you are doing it yourself or retained a lawyer, we are a perfect companion for you! 

We'll demystify the divorce process and provide you with time and money saving resources and worksheets so you can manage things like: 

  • Finding the right type of lawyer and legal support for your situation.
  • Getting the guidance you need while not draining your bank account.
  • Working with a meditator.

Avoid costly mistakes.

The financial ramifications of divorce can be overwhelming — from the cost of the divorce itself to sorting out your current situation and embracing a new one on your own. 

  • Are you going to receive or pay alimony or child support? 
  • How will assets and credit cards be split? 
  • Can you or should you keep the house?


Don't worry! We give you super simple tools so that you can go and easily answer these questions.

Make sure your kids are okay.

Thinking about your children and the impact on their lives is heart-breaking. You might be thinking that staying together for the kids could be better. Research has shown that children with divorced parents have no more or less issues than children whose parents stay married. The biggest factor in their emotional health is you how parent and co-parent.  Your kids will be okay! 

We'll help you:

  • Talk to your kids about divorce making sure you say the 5 things they need to hear.  
  • Lessen the negative emotional effects on them.  
  • How to create a parenting plan that supports you and your kids and avoid pitfalls of the cookie cutter versions out there. 
Survive & thrive the emotional rollercoaster.

You will go through every emotion possible spanning denial, rage, broken-hearted, scared, overwhelmed, relief and could feel it all in one day!  
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We'll help you: 

  • Cope with the emotional rollercoaster to get through each day and get on a path to healing.
  • Find the lifelines that will get you through the worst days.  
  • Navigate that alone feeling -- you aren't alone!
  • Find the strength and courage to get through this.
  • Let go of the feelings of guilt, shame and worrying about what others think.
Take care of you!

As divorce turns your world upside down and stress fills every moment of the day, it's easy to neglect someone very important: yourself.  

​​​​​​​Making taking care of yourself a priority will help you get through this phase much more easily!

We'll help you: 

  • Find the daily strategies that keep your body and mindset strong.
  • To discover simple joys, even in emotional turmoil. 
  • Survive and even thrive through divorce!

"Telling our children about the divorce was frightening and painful. We wanted to do anything we could to make it even a little less painful. Using the techniques in this guide made the conversation go as well as it could, and gave us additional tools for follow up discussions."
Amy L.

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HERE'S WHAT YOU GET:
ACCESS TO YOUR OWN MEMBER AREA SO YOU HAVE EVERYTHING IN ONE PLACE

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RESOURCES & CHECKLISTS
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You'll get guides to finding professionals, figuring out your finances, helping yourself mentally & spiritually, questions to ask, and more so your whole process is organized
PRIVATE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY

You'll be part of our budding Private Facebook Community where Julie is active and personally responding to comments and Q’s as you go through this process. You’re never alone.

PRIVATE 15-min CHAT WITH JULIE
Once you become a member, you’ll be invited by Julie herself for a private phone call where she will give you personalized guidance based on your unique situation.
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This is for you if you want to be able to look back on your divorce and KNOW you did the best you could possibly do for an amicable, fair divorce that put your kids first and set you up for the future you desire. 

This is NOT a man or woman bashing group.
​​​​​​​We're all in this together! 

We welcome both men & women and couples who want to do this together. 

READY TO BECOME A MEMBER?
Membership Includes:
Access to your members area where you will find all your resources, checklists and guides for all you need to LEARN, KNOW and DO before, during and after divorce. 

Extra help and support in the Private Facebook Community with access to Julie herself including LIVE Q&As

15 minute phone consultation with Julie so you can receive personalized guidance. 

PLUS: FREE access to my new program, Divorce Simplified: Your Step-by-Step Guide, coming soon! This includes a video walk through series to accompany what you already will have access to. When you join now, you will lock in your low monthly rate and never be charged more for additional content and features. 
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*Limited time offer.
Lock in your special rate. After the first month, you will be billed  $97 $37 monthly.
Cancel anytime - No Hassle! 
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Psst... Need to pay without your spouse knowing?  Here are 3 options: 1. Get a credit card in your own name and have the statement mailed to a PO Box or your office. 2. Have a friend or family member pay for services with the agreement of paying them back when everything is out in the open. 3. Buy Visa gift cards at the grocery store.
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"It’s definitely worth every penny!​​​​​​​"
​​​​​​​Jeremy

"Untangle The Knot has been such a lifeline to me, saving me thousands of dollars and shortening my divorce process!"
​​​​​​​Laurie S
"I can't describe how much easier life is now. Felt insurmountable until I was on the other side. Now, I have peace."
Beth D.
"The information is provided in such a digestible way and offers practical guidance and tools to help them through each phase"​​​​​​​
Jen Wacaser - Professional Life Coach
"As a family therapist, I wholeheartedly recommend Untangle The Knot as it provides straightforward guidance everyone needs to get through such a difficult time, as well as insights for using divorce as a way to positively transform your life."
Nancy Hamilton - MSW, LCSW
"Untangle the Knot provided me with clear and concise information about the process, my rights, getting a handle on my finances, and simply coping with the whole divorce and the effect on every aspect of my life." 
Tasha S
MEMBERSHIP FAQ'S

Hey- I'm Julie! I'm not scary like a lawyer or heavy like a therapist. I'm just a woman who's gone thorugh the trials and tribulations of a divorce.

I thought I knew what I was doing and thought I had all the resources, but now that I know SO much more, I see things I really would have done differently.

I knew how much easier it could have been if I had all the information I needed all in one place, and so I created the Untangle The Knot Membership as the resource I WISH I had.

I got divorced 6 years ago now and we are both really happy in our new found lives. I'm wishing the same for you!

It's my mission to help others through this process so they can see how amazing and freeing life can be on the other side of divorce.

You sure could. Which would you get?

There are an abundance of books out there. I've read a bunch of them. There's books with incorrect info, out of date info and incomplete info. That's why I read them all, got you the best info and put it in Untangle The Knot Memerbship in an EASY, digestible and organized way.

The best part of Membership is having all you need in ONE place, staying organized AND the community and support you'll get. NO book can give you that!

We welcome both men and women in our membership. We try to keep a mature crowd eager to do divorce maturely and quickly so both can move on with their lives in a really healthy and loving way.

You're going to love this so much you will not want to cancel!

There's SO much value to staying in as new issues will come up and you will continually need support even in post divorce. We recommend stay from the time you start thinking about divorce until about 1-2 years after.

If you do decide to cancel, we have a no questions asked, cancel anytime policy!

You sure can!

We do have a Private Facebook group, but you are in no way required to join and participate in that aspect. If you would like to do so with an alias Facebook account, just email us after you join with your account information so we can allow you entrance.

Yes!

We give you much broader and much more comprehensive information than a lawyer can. We want to help you with the whole picture and all areas of your life that will be impacted.

You won't have to waste all your time and money at a lawyers office with basic questions. They are going to ask you about your decisions, and we help you to make them.

DIVORCE FAQ'S

It depends. A do-it-yourself divorce can cost just a few hundred dollars, while a nasty one can cost in excess of $100K. That said, the average is about $10 – $20K. If you both approach it amicably and surround yourself with the right support – you can probably get through the process for a few thousand dollars. Most Untangle The Knot clients end up in this range as they are armed with the information they need, saving thousands of dollars on unnecessary legal fees by working with their attorney most effectively and by preventing mistakes.

Each state has its own guidelines for waiting periods, but typically can happen as early as 60 days. It really depends on how organized and informed you and your spouse are, and how well you are able to work together to reach a settlement. Nasty divorces can not only drain your savings, but it can also take a year or greater to resolve.

Child support is a mathematical formula based upon income and the number of overnights spent with each parent. Each state has a worksheet available for you to calculate. Each state also has guidelines for spousal support (alimony). This is not a hard and fast rule and is intended to help the spouse with lower earnings gain the skills needed to be able to eventually support themselves.

The question is should you keep the house? One of the biggest mistakes made during divorce is keeping the family home when it can’t truly be afforded.

Splitting your financial life is tough and divorce is an equation. In order to keep the home, you will likely need to buy your spouse out. This usually happens with trading cash, retirement or support payments. Homes are expensive and time consuming to maintain. Think about when a new roof is needed or living on that corner lot when it snows and the lawn needs to be mowed each week. Do you have the time and cash to handle the maintenance after you’ve given away your cash to keep the home? Financial planners often note this as the number one financial mistake people make in divorce.

Most states have a guideline for equally sharing parenting time (formerly known as custody). This can depend on the children’s ages and each parent's ability to care for the children. States will default to what they believe is in the best interests of the kids.

This is probably the hardest and one of the most important conversations you’ll have. The words you choose when telling your kids about your divorce will begin to shape their emotions and mindset. There are best practices to use depending on the ages of the kids and we have scripts available with your purchase of Untangle The Knot. Make every effort to tell the kids with your spouse and both of you reinforce how much you each love the kids and will always be there for them no matter what.

As a parent, this is the heartbreaking concern that keeps us up at night. Your kids will be okay! It will hurt and be an adjustment, but there are proven things you can do to help ease their transition and help them heal. The most important thing you can do is to take good care of yourself so you are strong enough to help your kids.

Going through divorce is similar to grieving after someone dies. People will typically start with a feeling of denial. “This can’t really be happening to me!”. This is followed by feelings of anger, sadness, and willingness to do anything to get back together. Finally, you’ll reach acceptance and be on the other side of the pain. It will take time to work through your emotions, but I promise you’ll get through it! There are ways to heal from the pain faster and in a healthier way, and we share many approaches for you with your purchase of Untangle The Knot.

You’ve decided to leave. This is going to take some serious mental preparation. This is a person you loved, and likely still love. This could be the mother or father of your children. How he or she receives the news depends on how he or she feels about your marriage.

Do’s
Find a time you won’t be interrupted
Be respectful
Be calm
Use “I” statements
Use neutral language
Communicate that there isn’t a need to resolve everything right now

Don’t
Say it in anger
Yell or name-call
Make assumptions for how he or she feels
Leave a note or text
Place blame
Discuss divorce proposals

Divorce is the second most stressful life event anyone can endure. Keeping your mind, body and spirit healthy and grounded is the best thing you can do for yourself. The challenge is, this is likely the last thing you care about right now! Getting enough sleep, at least a little exercise and some healthy food to fuel your body will go a long way toward keeping your mind clear and your mood balanced.

Research shows that divorce may have a negative effect on your physical and mental health, as any chronically stressful situation would. Your goal is not to become one of these statistics. Physical health encompasses everything from physical fitness to overall well-being. There are three key elements of physical health: Nutrition, Exercise and Sleep. Each of these work together to ensure that you are firing on all cylinders and have the energy to make clear-headed decisions while feeling confident and healthy. If you are considering divorce, your physical health and well-being should be one of your top priorities. The irony is that this may be the last thing on your mind.

Let’s face it; divorce could be considered an endurance event. And just as you would prepare your body for an endurance event by planning and training, you also need to prepare your body to withstand the rigors of the potential reality of divorce–ensuring you are strong enough to undertake the challenges you may encounter along the way. Whether or not divorce is your eventual outcome, improving your physical health will benefit you in many positive ways.

It is highly recommended to understand what level your physical health is at now so that you know what areas you need to focus on. Then you can start taking positive steps to improve your eating habits, boost your exercise levels and sleep better at night.

Anything we didn't answer? Just contact us at info@untangletheknot.com
You don't want to look back and wish you had this companion.

​​​​​​​Let's do this together!
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